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How do divorced parents handle special needs medical care?

On Behalf of | Jan 24, 2025 | Divorce

When divorced parents disagree about medical care for a child with neurological disabilities, it can be tough. Different opinions on what’s best can cause conflict. Understanding your rights and focusing on what’s best for your child can guide you through these disagreements.

Sharing responsibility for decisions about medical care

In Florida, parents are usually expected to share responsibility for major decisions, including medical care. This means working together to decide what’s best for the child. But if parents can’t agree and it’s causing harm or stress, a court might let one parent make medical decisions alone. This happens if the court thinks one parent’s choices better match the child’s needs.

How mediation can help

Mediation is a way for parents to resolve disagreements without going to court. In mediation, a trained person helps parents discuss their concerns and devise a plan. It’s often faster and less stressful than court. Mediation also allows parents to stay in control of the decision instead of leaving it to a judge.

What courts look at in these cases

If parents can’t work it out, a court may decide. Florida courts focus on what’s best for the child. Judges consider things like the child’s medical needs, what doctors or therapists recommend, how well the parents work together, and how involved each parent is in the child’s care. Doctors or other experts might also give their opinions to help the court decide.

Using parenting plans to avoid conflict

A parenting plan can help parents avoid arguments by clearly stating how they will handle medical decisions. In Florida, parenting plans are required in custody cases. These plans should include rules for making medical decisions and what to do if parents disagree. A good plan can reduce future conflicts and make things clearer for everyone.

Putting your child’s health first

Disagreements about medical care for a child with neurological disabilities can be stressful, but patience and teamwork can help. The goal should always be to support your child’s health and well-being. Knowing your rights and how the law works can make the process easier to manage.